Kyla - Counselor And Healer

"Here is a sneak peek from my upcoming book Spiritually Medicated. Visit my website KylaLam.com for updates or to book your healing session."

THERE’S A CHILD THAT LIVES INSIDE OF YOU

No really, there’s a child that lives inside of you. We are multidimensional energetic beings and inside each of us is a small child that has needs, wants, and desires. Just like a real living child would, outside of you. Whenever you betray yourself, as I did for many years with drugs, alcohol, thoughts of not being good enough, and indiscriminate sex, you betray the small child that lives inside of you. Every time you say an unkind thing to yourself (and the level of self-loathing we humans do on an unconscious level is like a disease that runs rampant), it’s like saying unkind things to a small 5-year-old child. Have you ever taken the time to take inventory of every single thought you have running in your head throughout the day? The subtle, you can’t do this, people will laugh at you, you’re not as talented as that person, you don’t know how to do that, what will people think about you is humming in the background and unconsciously running your life and wreaking havoc on your emotional body and self-esteem. And then you wonder why you’re not living your dream life, in a fulfilling loving relationship, or working a job that feeds your spirit. The child that lives inside of you is hurting.

Your inner world will always reflect and dictate your outer world. Your inner world is that small child inside begging to be seen, heard, honored, loved, and treated with respect. The child inside of you is wondering what happened to all the fun and when did things get so serious? Quite literally, the child inside of you is still yearning for fun, attention, and approval from mommy, daddy, and playmates. If your current reality, your outer world, isn’t everything you dreamed of, I can assure you your inner child is feeling abandoned and neglected and you’ve been operating life unintentionally from a place of pain and not nearly enough play. Not enough carefree fun for you. If this is a sketch concept for you to take in, don’t worry, it was for me too.